self centered

i’ve been thinking about this lately… plus the last sunday Utusan got this one article indirectly discuss on this (lebeh serius sebab diarang bercerita pasal adab dalam meberi pendapat dan permasalahan orang sekarang yang suka dengan pendapat ssendiri dan mencar sokongan dengan nas-nas yang ditafsir sendiri untuk menyokong pendapat sendiri) fuh !!!!…

i thought i am the most self centered person ever since everythin  that i concern is about me and my life.

the ability to listen is a sign of intelligence..

listens means to really listen to the other without giving any comment till the end.. ermmmm senang cakap jangan potong cakap orang…—. the very no thing is to  relates other people story to our situation and said that ours is the best example ever…. please trust me.. i’ve done that, i’ve come accross that,  i this and i that….. trust me… aku pung nyampah bila aku tengah syiok cerita tibe2 ada minah nyampuk citer dia punya citer lagi bes (this is an example of tentang perasaan sendiri yang aku agak orang lain akan rasa nyampah sama bila melalui situasi yang sama but who knows??? hehe)…

huhu…as if mcm best tapi bila dengar takde lah benda sangat… no… actually we can tell whther they tell the story just to share or to show off or just to say taht helloo aku nyerrr cite lagih best… hahah

anyway people come to us normally because they wanna share things that really affected them directly or not and they wanna share with hope the others will feel the same way too.

listening doesnt mean agreeing but to show protest is not really necessary. aku sukerr cakap seorang cendekiawan nih… aku tak ingat namanya— tak ingat sangatla apa ayat yang sebenar but senang tulis… dont just say but do… at the end of the people judge us by what we do. what we say? orang jarang nak pakai because orang suka kata-kata dari mulut sendiri-sendiri. inilah penyakit sekarang yang aku baca kat surat kabar ahad lepas… yang sebenarnya penyakit aku juga… hahahahahahaha

One Response to “self centered”

  1.   Azmahani
    September 2nd, 2007 | 4:01 pm

    kadang2 kena gak menyelit/potong org cakap kalau dah meleret2 dan tak reti nak stop dan jugak bila dah sebuk ckp hal org lain…..ceh….ataupon buat2 dengar jek tapi kepala pk lain….heheehe…harap aku menjadik a good listener and less cakap2….

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